Post by ignoscency
Search the internet extremely heavily using search engines;
it takes awhile to find something worthwhile, but there are indeed places
that list gear available for an optimal set-up before hitting Ulduar.
Try this.You've logged out in your healing gear, so I can't see what type of
items you have for your other spec. It looks like you're somewhere in between
the stages of Heroic Naxxramas, so it would be advisable to save up
your badges to invest into some gear for your Shadow spec.
You also said that you were tired of being carried through; everyone starts
out with slightly ghastly gear. Playing alongside players that have obtained
gear from higher-end raids doesn't necessarily mean you're being "carried".
If you're trying to imply that your DPS/situational awareness isn't up to par with
others, though, I would recommend reading through some guides on rotations
and gemming as a Shadow Priest.
Gear isn't everything; in order to be a viable DPS class, you have to have
the skill in order to develop it in the first place. The gear is only there to enhance
it by a slight amount.