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ElhonnaDS
EDIT: NVM my last post, then.
But I'd say straight-forward and honest is the best way to go.
I...I agree with Facesmasher...
Someone should take a screenshot of this post so people will believe it happened :P(##RESPBREAK##)8##DELIM##ElhonnaDS##DELIM##
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Interest
cut him the long-term weekly pain, and tell him u dont like him.
=(
Knowledge is power. Do this.
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Haxzor
the plot thickens
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240140
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gnomerdon
do not tell him who i am.... im begging u... don't want him pulling a liam neeson on me.
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gnomerdon
depends on how big the bowl is. but yes, i've had a few sessions where i went overboard to the max.
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Patty
I love how when a hot guy texts a kiss at the end it's just relegated to definitely not being meant for me.
It's okay though, there's always dying alone with cats!Just found out my grandpa has cancer and will probably pass away in a few weeks. He's been very sick for months now though so it's been expected. :(
:( *hugs* At least he'll be at peace, though.
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ElhonnaDS
I'm sorry, Elura.
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Rankkor
This guy just said he's fallen for me and I accidentally said "I know". I did not mean to! I didn't realize what he was saying at all D:
Awwww...I hope you smoothed it out :(
Well I said I didn't understand what he was saying. This is tough though, I really like him as a friend so I don't want to hurt him but I don't like him in that way at all :(
aww crap :S this happened to me once in highschool, and it hurts like hell.
Poor fellaw, but Face is right, its best to come clean now than to get his hopes up only to be crushed later.
This is a big part of the reason I really don't like it when guys always call "friendzone".
why? that's essentially what it is, someone who wants to be more, but she only wants to stay friends. Its not really anyone's fault (guy or girl) and it is going to suck for both people involved anyways (it will suck more for the one who's feelings are unrequited)
It's not easy for us either, no one wants to lose a friend, but you can't date someone just because they like you
This is very true. It doesn't make it any less painful. The girl I liked in highschool however, was NOT subtle about it. Rather than be sensible and simply say that she isn't interested in me, she laughed at my face when I invited her for a date ='(
I cried like a wuss for almost 4 months, and never managed to work up the courage to invite any girl to anything for well over 10 years. Thanks a lot Alicia >_> I hope you're proud of yourself.
It may not be easy for the girls either, but you DO have it easier than us guys, because traditionally, its the guy who has to make the first move, and thus, is the one who has to risk being shot down like a fly when the feeling isn't mutual. Thank god most women are actually nice enough to reject in a way that lets the other fellow keep some dignity.
Just found out my grandpa has cancer and will probably pass away in a few weeks. He's been very sick for months now though so it's been expected. :(
Also, dang o_O that's horrible. I'm very sory Elura.
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Patty
Not really, the whole concept of "friendzoning" suggests that guys should somehow be entitled to women liking them and that if they don't, the girl is actively doing something malicious. It guilt-trips and vilifies the woman involved. Women have to put up with much more cat-calling, groping and general harassment than guys do, generally. If they respond, they're ^&*!s, if not, they're frigid. I could really go on about this.
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Rankkor
Not really, the whole concept of "friendzoning" suggests that guys should somehow be entitled to women liking them and that if they don't, the girl is actively doing something malicious.
I never suggested that o_O
In fact, Friendzones CAN apply to women too, its just not as frequent because normally, its the guy who has to make the first move, thus its them who get sent to the friendzone.
I did said that its never anyone's fault (the one making the first move, or the one rejecting said move). And it would be far more cruel to accept the feelings of someone you don't love romantically, only to crush their hopes later on.
A rejection is actually (despite how much it hurts) the nicer option, as long as its done the proper way. (By "done well" I mean: don't destroy what little self-esteem the other person has. Be nice about it)
I will say this: Regardless of whether you're male or female, gay or straight, it really really REALLY sucks when you love someone, but for whatever reasons that someone does not loves you back (Which is the actual concept of the friendzone). It hurts EVEN MORE when you love someone, only for that someone to be as vicious and as cruel as to manipulate you, and discard you when you're not useful anymore (Like Alicia did with me in high-school. That girl was mean T_T)
I know I've been on both sides of it (me being rejected, and several years later, me rejecting someone else) and it was really unpleasant on both times (obviously the former hurts A LOT more than the latter)
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557473
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Rankkor
Not really, the whole concept of "friendzoning" suggests that guys should somehow be entitled to women liking them and that if they don't, the girl is actively doing something malicious. Women have to put up with much more cat-calling, groping and general harassment than guys do, generally. If they respond, they're ^&*!s, if not, they're frigid. I could really go on about this.
The whole friendzone thing is a disgusting concept. I hate guys who always claim it.
=/ maybe we got different definitions of it. Mine is simply when you love romantically someone, but this someone only likes you as a friend, thus there's that invisible barrier that you wont be able to overcome EVER. She's so close, but so far at the same time.
Maaaaaybe you're just not @#$%ing likeable? A guy who flips out because a girl thought she could actually have a male friend who didn't just want to have sex with her is not a "nice guy".
Ohh trust me, I agree. Blaming HER for not liking you is a very immature position to take. I mean, seriously, if you're not compatible, what are you gonna do? force her to be with you at gunpoint? when there's no chemistry, then there's nothing else to do, but suck it up and learn to let go.
But there is a specific group of guys who use the friendzone as an excuse for everything.
Well, misogyny is a rather ugly side of humanity that is unfortunately never going to go away entirely. It is unfair to say that all guys who say they were sent to the friendzone are being misogynistic about it. Sometimes a guy saying he's stuck at being a friend just means he is stuck at being a friend.
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